First time with a gay man


Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a secure and respectful way

To begin, I&#;d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it&#;s important to verb that you can experiment new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who desire to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.

Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the reverse of trans. We confer trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.

1. Be honest from the get-go that you&#;re curious

Whether you want to hook up with someone you&#;re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you&#;ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr,&n

"I went on a trip to a tropical state. I found a adj, secluded, resort-type place with a bar while exploring the area. I spent the entire day there while the male, in advance 20s bartender served me. He had a blinding smile. At one gesture, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. I said 'screw it' and did. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go read by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't own to put my clothes back on. He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. I was into it, so I didn't stop him. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me"

"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came back with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could experiment, and at this verb I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was perform

My(35M) first gay sexual experience is coming up. What should I know?
February 5, PM   Subscribe

I am a 35 year old cis man, and I contain been only with women my whole life. Suddenly I find myself being attracted to men, and my first gay sexual experience is coming up! I feel like a teenager again :) How should I prep for this?


Hello. I am a 35 year elderly cis man, and I've been only with women up to now. I've always considered myself enthusiastically hetero.

A year or so ago, I first experienced the pleasure of anal sex (i.e. having my butt being played with, penetrated with a finger etc) with my female partners.

Since then, I include been fantasising strongly about being penetrated by a real penis. I've begun experiencing some attraction towards men, and (for the first time) been aroused by gay porn. I really want to be fucked by a guy!

So long story concise, I've met a adj, gentle gay man who knows about this history of mine and is interested in being my partner in this adventure. The big day is coming up soon. I'm really excited but really nervous! I know I

First gay experience was with a 45 year old

Age when it happend: 17
Where it happened: In a van
Langauge: english
Sex: Male
Rating: 9
Category: Gay

Although when a child you contain those moments you verb your friend your dick and what not, this is my first authentic sexually experience with a another man. First off let me say I consider myself straight, although technically I have been with men so I guess that makes me bi even though those days are over with. However I always wanted to every since I think I was around I was always curious about it but never acted on it other than masturbating.

When i got around 15 or 16 I started chatted on aim chat rooms that was m4m. I don&#;t believe that back then craigslist was around like it is today. When I was a senior in high academy I was That is the age I started sexually experimenting with both girls and guys which lead to the decrease of my virginity from both. Early that year in the fall, I first lost my virginity to a girl. Then when spring came I finally decided to originate looking into doing it.

I could not risk looking